11 Ways to Increase Your Discipline

While having lunch with a friend last week, he told me how impressed he was with one of the speakers at a conference he recently attended. Sabriye Tenberken became gradually visually impaired and eventually completely blind by the age of thirteen.

Ms. Tenberken overcame her handicap and went on to achieve great success. During her speech, she said, “If you are going to be successful, your goal must be bigger than your greatest obstacle.” Wow, how true! Think about it.

My mind immediately went to my lesson about discipline in Your Greatest Obstacle post, as I am convinced that DISCIPLINE is the greatest obstacle in preventing most people from achieving their goals. Just think, if you had the discipline to do everything you knew you should do, even when you did not feel like doing it, would you be more successful in achieving your personal and professional goals?

As I pointed out on the Little Things Matter Facebook fan page this past Sunday, if I were to assign a dollar value to each of the 643 little things on my list, discipline would carry a higher value than any other thing. It’s the hardest one to do consistently and therefore the marketplace rewards it more than any other.

In today’s lesson I am going to highlight 11 things you can do to increase the intensity and consistency of the discipline required to achieve your goals.

1.  Make a Personal Commitment That You Will Become a Disciplined Person—If you really want to achieve your goals, then you must make the commitment that you will become more disciplined.

2.  Focus On Your Goal—To help you become more disciplined, review your goals every morning before you start your day. Pick a quiet place where you can concentrate and visualize. Put yourself in a state of mind where you have achieved your goal and imagine the feeling you will have. If possible find pictures or images of your goals to help you better visualize what your life will be like when you have achieved them.

3.  First Do What You Don’t Want To Do—As you plan your day, make sure you block out time to first do the things that require the most discipline. Whether it’s prospecting, exercising, or cleaning up your home, do it first. I have learned over the last 29 years that the best time to do the things I don’t want to do is first thing in the morning. If you will commit to doing the things that are the hardest for you to do first, not only will you do them with greater consistency, but also you feel great the rest of the day.

4.  Get Your Rest—One of the keys to employing discipline with consistency is maintaining a high level of energy. When I’m tired, it is VERY hard for me to be disciplined. How about you?

5.  Eat Right—When you eat right, you will feel better and have more energy. Start your day with a breakfast high in protein and low in simple carbs. For lunch, avoid eating the foods that make you tired so you can keep your energy high throughout the day.

6.  Don’t Drink Too Much—I know first hand that if you drink too much alcohol at night, it is very difficult to have any discipline the next day. Use your discipline to drink in moderation so you can use your discipline the next day to achieve your goals.

7.  Start Doing The Little Things—One of the best ways to become more disciplined is by doing the little things you know you should do like making your bed, keeping your car cleaned, taking the garbage out and picking up after yourself. As you become more disciplined in doing the little things, you will become more disciplined in doing the big things.

8.  Make The Decision in Advance—If you make the decision to exercise every morning at 6:00 AM, then don’t allow yourself to question your decision every morning. If you are going to take on that important project in the morning, then don’t second-guess your decision in the morning. The decision is made, now follow through with it!

9.  Make It A Routine—Set up a routine for doing the things you don’t want to do. As an example If you are in sales, set up a routine to prospect for new business every morning from 9:00-11:00. When you make things part of your daily routine, it’s much easier to employ the discipline to get them accomplished.

10.  Consume Energy Drinks—I have found drinking coffee and other energy drinks increases my ability to be more disciplined, especially those double shot iced latte’s in the afternoon.

11.  Reward Yourself—When you do the things that require discipline, recognize and reward yourself when you are done. If you just finished a big project, take yourself out to your favorite restaurant. If you have been disciplined over an extended period of time, then perhaps a weekend get-a-way would be an appropriate reward.

Let me challenge you to become aware of the role your personal discipline will play in the achievement of your goals. Adopt the “Do It Now” mentality and when there is something you need to do, say to yourself “If I don’t feel like doing it, then I must do it now” and without further delay ATTACK it with vengeance and get it done.

As I said in The Hidden Benefit of Discipline when you employ self-discipline, not only will you be more likely to achieve your goals, but you will also feel great about yourself.

Will you accept my challenge to be more disciplined? Make your commitment public by sharing it in the comments section below this post.

One of the most important keys to success is having the discipline to do what you know you should do, even when you don’t feel like doing it.

About the Author: Todd Smith is a successful entrepreneur of 30 years and founder of Little Things Matter. To receive Todd’s daily lessons, subscribe here. All Todd’s lessons are also available on iTunes as downloadable podcasts. (Todd’s podcasts are ranked #27 in America’s top 100 podcasts and #1 in the personal and development field.)

Related Posts:

Your Greatest Obstacle

The Hidden Benefit of Discipline

How to Put Together An Action Plan

My Top Time Management Tip

Jim Rohn Sampler Pack
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  • Kate
    I think I will concentrate on #7 because that's where I have the most trouble catching up. Many thanks for putting it down so wisely, Todd.
  • Hi Kate,

    As you focus on doing the little things you know you should do with consistency, everything improves. Your relationships improve. Your value to the market improves. Your self-esteem improves. Your life improves. In fact, if I were to give people one of the most important tips I could ever share, it would be to do the "little things" you know you should do, even when you don't feel like doing them.

    I wish you the best!

    Todd
  • Hello Todd,
    I accepted your challenge last March when I learned the value of these 11 lessons on increasing my discipline. My reward besides massive amounts of caffeine has been an increase in my productivity.

    “Discipline will help us know the difference between an opportunity and a distraction.” – K.J. Kilroy Was Here!

    “When I eat the Frog first I dissect it into small manageable pieces quickly devouring the legs, thighs, torso and then swallowing the head whole without contemplating if I can do it or not.” – K.J. Kilroy Was Here!

    Bon Appetite,
    Kevin J. Kilroy
  • You are killing me Kevin!
  • Denise
    I especially love #7...I think it's better to have an OHM than an energy drink filled w/ caffeine and sugar but I understand your point in #10...I believe, "if it's not written, it's not true." so YES, write down the goals and do them. Rock on!
  • Hi Denise,

    I appreciate you stopping by to comment.

    Rock on!

    Todd
  • Thanks so much for this article! I think that most of these tips are intuitive, but you've put them into terms that really grabbed me and made me 'fess up to what I truly HAVE to do in order to reach my goals. I'm committing the quote from Ms Tenberken to memory....
    Thanks again for a wonderful and informative blog!
  • Hi Linda,

    Thanks for comment and kind words.

    As you pointed out, many of these lessons are things most people know, but doing them consistently is where most people fail.

    The quote by Ms Tenberken will make you pause and think. :-)

    Thanks,

    Todd
  • I like this article a lot. I'm only in disagreement with number 10 - but caffiene makes my stomach hurt, so I need to avoid it. I have found, however, that maintaining consistent water intake works well for helping me stay focused throughout the day.
  • Hi Stephanie,

    Thanks for your comment. Yes, I know some people cannot and should not have coffee. I agree about consuming a lot of water! It does help! Thanks!

    Todd
  • Christian J
    Todd I saw your interview on network marketing pro.com, I have since looked for info on your success. It is worthwhile and valuable, I just went back to The Master Key to Riches to look for repeated principles. The theme of the whole book Discipline. This is the single most importand thing to achieving success in any endevor, thanks for the tip and I market XS Energy drink brand so the energy drink one is under control but all your advice will go under consideration.
  • Christian J
    and another thing for me to personally stay on track is to always tell my self that right now is generally the right time to do the little things
  • Hi Christian,

    Thanks for your comment. I enjoyed my interview with Eric. He is a great guy.

    If you will remain disciplined and consistent in your activities your business can be enormously rewarding.

    I have tried your product and liked it.

    I wish you the best.

    Todd
  • HopeZ
    Thanks, Todd! I will start repeating “If I don’t feel like doing it, then I must do it now” ! I have realized there are simple items on my weekly To-Do list that get repeated and repeated for months! This is the kind of thing that make me feels ineffectual and that I'm "not getting anywhere"

    It feels great to focus on accomplishing simple tasks on my ToDo list rather than simply re-writing them on next weeks list -- for weeks on end! Truly The Little Things that matter!
  • Hi HopeZ,

    I am glad you found value in this post. I have been saying, "If I don't feel like doing it, then I must do it now" for many years. It is very effective.

    I wish you the best!

    Todd
  • patjbangkok
    Thanks! Self-discipline has certainly been my biggest flaw and hindrance to every aspect of my life. Now, I can work towards improving my performance. Thanks again!
  • Hi Pat,

    If you will focus on improving your discipline, it can change just about every area of your life.

    I wish you the best!

    Todd
  • Joylynnette
    Dear Scott,
    Here are a few additions to what I think should be included to help one's discipline. All strength comes from God, and with Him all things Are Possible. Do not be afraid to include Him as the source of Power. These 2 comments are what I feel should be included in 10 & 11. May God continue to Bless and Encourage you; working through you for His glory.

    10. How about take time to visualize God giving you the strength do what you need to get done, putting some cold water on your face, get moving with some quick walking or stretching exercises, then dedicating what you are doing to Jesus Christ who wants the best fo us. Amen . A prayer of dedication and a visualization of Christ being by your side can give you more strength than any energy drink ,which may have bad side effects when taken on a regular basis, not to mention the expense. And by all means stay away from SUGAR, It is poison to your blood in large doses given in energy drinks.

    11. Better yet, take the time and learn how to enjoy helping others. You are doing great and you know it! If you need some R&R take it. If you still have energy to burn, call someone that you can help with your presence, or a skill that you have and dedicate it to the Glory of God. He will give you more strength and dicipline in the future for having done something for another to glorify him. Reward God, from whom all good things come!
  • Thanks for your contribution to this post! I enjoyed reading your comment! Todd
  • elramirez
    Totally awesome! I particularly like that the steps to go through are things that compliment our daily routine at every extend, taking care of our eats, rest, health, etc. One great strategy to go by. Many thanks Todd.
  • Thanks El! I hope you are having a great week! Todd
  • Deamas
    My Personal Commitment That I Will Become a Disciplined Person again.
  • Thanks Deamas! The rewards are BIG!
  • Debbie
    Okay, just happened upon this site (thankfully) and read 11 ways to increase your discipline. Boy did I ever need to hear/read that today! I'm gonna do it! I'm going to commit to be more disciplined in my eating and exercising. I'm going to follow all 11.
    Thank you!
    Debbie Fleming Langley, BC. Canada
  • Hi Debbie- I am so glad you found my post of value. Let me also encourage you to read my other posts The Hidden Benefit of Discipline and Your Greatest Obstacle. I think you will find value in both of them. I also have a great one coming on Friday on Personal Initiative. Have a great day!
  • paul
    hi todd, i came across your website by accident and found it to be a very helpful tool and wanted to thank you. i'm going to make it a point to make certain i check out the lesson's as i receive them. again thank you for a god sent message.
    Blessings
    paul solomon
  • Hi Paul- I am glad you found my site. I look forward to reading more of your comments. Thanks! Todd
  • Thank you for the great tips Todd. I accept your challenge!

    I especially like #3 and #9. I keep scheduling prospecting for new business in the afternoon, and it isn't working well - big shock. My a.m. tasks keep getting stretched, and before I know it the window is closed. I will move that critical block to the morning.

    Thanks!
    - Scott
  • Hi Scott- Making prospecting calls in the morning is not only better for you, but prospects are in better moods and less stressed out in the mornings. Mornings are always a better time to prospect. Please come back and let me know how things go with your change of schedule. Todd
  • Will do, Todd - thanks. I guess I've always assumed that prospects would be too busy 'getting their day going' in the morning. But your logic makes perfect sense, and it obviously has worked well for you. So, I'll stop assuming (and thinking too much) and simply go for it. Talk soon!
  • elaineavilastalder
    Thank you so much for posting this. I truly needed to hear this.
    I will print this and post it on my office wall.

    elaine
  • Hi Elaine- Thanks for your comment. I'm glad you enjoyed my post on discipline. Be sure to read my post titled Your Greatest Obstacle. It is another post on discipline.
  • ericpinola
    Thank you for this nugget of wisdom. I especially support the energy drink item. Energy drinks give me a pep that others cannot keep up with, and sometimes that is all it takes to win.
  • Eric- Whatever it takes to get the edge! :-) Thanks for your post.
  • (Admittedly, I'm a little behind and trying to catch up on my LTM posts. That said ...)

    #10. Really?! Whoa. I had never thought of it this way. I always thought I should try to charge through the day without any "external assistance." Brilliant. I'm off to Starbucks now!

  • Kindra- I don't think you need an external assistance! It would be dangerous if you started drinking Starbucks!
  • Brenten M

    I will work to be more disciplined in my life. Thank you for the tips Todd, I think that First Do What You Don’t Want To Do will be the hardest step for me but I will work at doing that.
  • Brenten, thanks for your comment and public commitment to be more disciplined. Like you said, just focus on doing what you don't want to do first! It works great!
  • YES I will ... against all obstacles, overcoming them ... step by step ...
    I started beeing disciplined by translating ;-) you have in the Mailbox.

    TX Todd for your LTM
  • Hi Benny- Look at your go. I did receive your emails over the weekend and will respond this morning. Thanks for all you do.
  • I agree with everything in the blog - except the sources of energy to keep up with the working schedule - coffein is a good way to go if done moderately - you do not want to dammage your adrenals by overdoing it. I am happy to share with you other options that are working in synergy with the body's way to maintain optimally energetic.
    Best regards
  • I love everything you say except the portion on energy drinks - you do not want to fry your adrenals with coffein. There are way better sources to keep your energy level consistent and balanced.
    Happy to share
    Andrea
  • Hi Andrea- Thanks for your comment on my blog post titled, 11 ways to increase your energy. I agree about not frying your adrenals with stimulants. As you know it is all about moderation. If you want to share a healthy alternative that is not part of a business opportunity, I would welcome your advice. I hope you have a productive week.
  • Jennipher Hau
    Great one! I love to see how you connected in diet and lifestyle. What I choose for breakfast and lunch have a great impact. In fact a snack in between is crucial for stabilizing my blood sugar and not getting off track from my tasks.

    However #7 is the one I could improve on the most. I will focus intently on doing this for one week straight and share my result with you! Thanks!

  • Hi Jennipher- Alright report back next week and tell me how you did. I also want you to tell me how you feel about yourself for having done the little things you know you should do. Take care!
  • Here consistent, focused, disciplined and committed.
    Thank you for another posting.
    EB
  • Hi Ernesto- Are you being disciplined this weekend? :-)
  • Evan
    Todd
    More years ago than I care to remember, you did a presentation to a very large audience in Southern California. You spoke about the difference between successful people and the others. You credited the act of doing what you do not want to do as the key separating factor. Those who make the next call instead of avoiding it, were the ones who would succeed. Those who avoided doing what they disliked were not going to be as successful.

    I thought you would get a kick out of knowing that your message that many years ago occurs to me when I begin to get lazy about those calls, or other activities I know I must undertake but do not want to.

    You are consistent!
  • Hi Evan-That is too funny! I think if you surveyed everyone who has heard me teach over the years and asked them the points they still remember, this one would rank at the top of the list. For me discipline a way of life and a key factor in my success!

    I appreciate you commenting on this post and bringing back old memories. :-)
  • vickianzalone
    I agree with the post but the desire has to come first. That's what keeps us getting back up after we've been hit and striving to become more disciplined. Conceive, Believe and Achieve !!
  • Vicki- Success begins with desire, because without desire, you won't do what is required to succeed. You are right, it begins with desire! Thanks for sharing.
  • Point 8 is a big one for me. It's like my brain can't remember goals at 6am :)

  • Gerrid- I learned that point from Bill Hybels.
  • donnabrewer
    Good Morning Todd,this episode is so true. I will make the commitment to myself to do those things first that I like doing least. I am still full of optimism that my goals will be acheived. Planning and following through on what needs to be done is the only way to go! Thank you once again, Donna Brewer
  • Hi Donna- This is my #1 key to being disciplined. Do it first thing, then enjoy the rest of the day. Thanks for sharing your commitment to focus on this point.
  • Bob Warren
    This is not theory when YOU talk about disciple. I have watched you live out this principal and the body of your work throughout your career has proven the value of daily disciplines. Thanks Todd!! I have discovered in my own life the magic of advance decision making. Deciding in advance that I will begin my day with the Lord in study and prayer. Deciding in advance that I will read from a good book everyday. Deciding in advance that I will spend quality daily with my kids and wife. And, deciding in advance that I will do the key activities everyday that drive my business. The average person makes the decisions to do or not to do the important things on the fly. They make decisions all day long. I have discovered that when I live like this I will make decisions based on how I feel at that moment and I compromise what I really desire.

    Thanks Todd for setting the example,

    Bob Warren
  • Bob- There is no doubt when you make the decisions to do things in advance, it makes it a lot easier to do them. Thanks for your comments!
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