Do You Have What It Takes?

Have you ever wondered if you really have what it takes to succeed in achieving your goals?  Are you where you thought you would be at this time in your life?  In today’s lesson I am going to highlight one of the key attributes that differentiate those who succeed in the things they pursue from those who fail.

As I have watched and studied thousands of want-to-be entrepreneurs over my career, I have learned a lot about what it really takes to succeed at a high level.  While there are many things that go into achieving great success, there is one common attribute I’ve seen in 100% of the people who gone on to attain greatness.

Do you have persistence?

If you have set big goals for your life, the only way you will achieve them is by being persistent. Why?  Because achieving anything worthwhile is a journey through life’s battlefield that requires a sustained effort over an extended period of time.  Read the biographies of successful people and you won’t find one who said it was easy or fast.

The road to reaching your goals will be filled with roadblocks that will require you to modify your course. You will experience pounding hailstorms that will beat the tar out of you and cause you to question whether it is worth it. You will have people telling you that you will never make it. There is a reason there is very little traffic when going the extra mile.

What is critical to understand is achieving a high level of success at anything is very difficult, which is why so few people enjoy the rewards of that come with reaching their goals.  My life’s experiences have taught me most people (95%+) quit when times get tough.

Years ago I had a fellow Realtor tell me that 99 out of a 100 people who go to real estate school, don’t renew their license the next year. Not only did these people not have the persistence to win, they didn’t have the resolve in their bones to do more than getting their license.  What a tragedy!

What type of persistence does it take to win?

If you are going to win, you must be mentally prepared to face your challenges head on. You must know it’s not going to be easy. You must be strong enough to fight through disappointments, failures and times of discouragement. You must be patient, because achieving anything worthwhile takes time.

Most importantly if you are giving your best and making measurable progress you must never give up.  When you quit, you are throwing the towel in the ring and saying, “I give up.”  While there are times to give up as I pointed out in my post When Quitting is the Best Decision You Can Make, those times should be the exception if you are making good decisions.

What is your biggest goal?

When you look at your goals, what is the one goal that is really important to you? (Don’t continue until you have it selected.)

Is that goal important enough to you that you will stay the course and do what is required of you to win?  When you get down and discouraged, are you strong enough to pick yourself up by the boat straps and continue with the attitude of a winner?

Here is what I know.  You can achieve anything that is important to you, if you are willing to pay the price required to succeed. The great thing about success is it cannot be purchased; it is available to anyone who is willing to work hard, remain disciplined and persevere.

I want to challenge you to step up your game.  Push harder than you have ever pushed yourself before.  When you get down, remind yourself that everyone gets down, but the difference between you and many others is that you are a winner and not a quitter.  Believe you are a winner and you will win.

During the darkest hour is when the winners in life dig deep inside to gather the strength to win.

About the Author: Todd Smith is a successful entrepreneur of 29 years and founder of Little Things Matter. To receive Todd’s daily lessons, subscribe here. All Todd’s lessons are also available on iTunes as downloadable podcasts.

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  • CJ
    This is an excellent read and is the TRUTH! It's funny, I just lived through an object lesson of this truth yesterday. Persistence is something I can control...and I will persist...even when my feelings encourage me to do do otherwise. Thanks for this!
  • Thanks CJ! I appreciate you stopping by to comment and contribute.
  • catascouts
    Thanks for the motivation boost, Todd! I'm also a rock climber and my "baby business" revolves around extreme sports and outdoorsy stuff.

    I'm in love with this blog!
  • Hi Constantin- I appreciate your kind words about my blog. I am glad you are enjoying my lessons. I wish you the best in your business!
  • Great post. I tell myself keep at it. Work smart. Every day think about what you could be doing better.
  • Andy- If you are thinking about what you can do to get better EVERY DAY, you will see the things you are not doing that will accelerate your growth. I love it. Thanks for stopping by to comment.
  • Spot on, Todd. You know, after 19 years of stubborn persistence, I am finally winning. Why? Because I have the attitude and philosophy outlined in this post which propels me to do the actions necessary to succeed ... period.

    Simple - wish it didn't take 19 years!

    Best to you ...
  • GBG Guy- Thanks for your contribution! Congrats on your success! Better now than never! :-)
  • John Fritts
    Good morning Todd. Thank you for telling it the way it is. Persistence is absolutely the key, and there is no easy road to excellence in anything. As I look back on my career in health care the same has applied. Looking forward, your reminders help in focusing on my goals. Have a great day!
  • Thanks John! I appreciate your message.
  • Ernesto_Busnelli
    P-ersist no matter what.
    E-ndure discomfort.
    R-equest help.
    S-teadfastly hold on to your beliefs and values.
    E-nvision triumph.
    V-ery consistently keep at it.
    E-mbrace adversity as your teacher.
    R-efuse to give up.
    E-njoy and celebrate every tiny bit of progress!
  • Ernesto- I love it!
  • Hello Todd,
    Been there done that going for a second helping...Great pep talk!

    ACN's new videophone is going to be released soon. I will join then to win again. I already have formed a K.I.S.S. Team and K.I.S.S. Army since last October to help them become the winners that I know they can be.

    To The Top Once More,
    Kevin J. Kilroy
  • Kevin- I wish you the best going to the top! You certainly seem like you know what you have to do, now you have to do it. To the TOP you go!
  • donnabrewer
    Good morning Todd, thank you for a great lesson. I know when I feel I don't want go on, I just remember:" when the going gets rough, the tough gets going". I realize to some this may sound corny, but having a pity party never gets anyone anywhere,and does not change the color of the situation. I think if we just keep our eye on the golden carrot, and remember when we get thrown lemons just make lemonade we'll do fine. Live, Laugh, & Love, Thank you, Donna Brewer
  • Donna- I love your perspective! Thanks for sharing!
  • JP
    Great post. I would also like to add that it's typically the last 10% that's the most difficult. People have a hard time finishing and that's where it really matters.
  • JP- Great point! It doesn't matter what you are doing the last 10% is hard. So, do you think the last 10% is harder than the first 10%?
  • JP
    In the software world it's the last 10% that's the hardest. Starting a new project is glamorous, it's fun. Finishing a project is tough, most of the architecture is in place - the fun part is over. To put it simply: software developers have a tough time shipping.
  • JP- I can see your point. Thanks for engaging!
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