What Is Easy to Do Is Easy Not to Do

Today’s post is one of the foundational pillars for Little Things Matter.  Of the more than a thousand comments left below my Web posts—on both this blog and on Facebook, it is clear that most people know the simple, easy little things they need to do, they just don’t do them with consistency.  As my mentor Jim Rohn* said, “What is easy to do is easy not to do.

Know it—Do it

We know we should listen without interrupting, but we still find ourselves interrupting.  We know we need to finish our projects on time, yet we find ourselves missing deadlines.  We know we should remember someone’s name, but yet we don’t pay attention and forget. We know we should answer that email or return that phone call, yet we keep putting it off.

The reason this lesson is one of the foundational pillars for Little Things Matter is because any big success is made up of little successes.  As Coach John Wooden said, “Little things make big things happen.”

If you are going to be successful at anything personally or professionally, it will result from doing the little things that, for the most part, are easy to do but also easy to neglect.

Be Consistent

Not only is it necessary to use your personal initiative to do the little things that are easy to do, the key is doing them consistently.  Most people do push themselves to do something for a short time, but very few people will do the things they should over an extended period of time.

Being consistent in doing the little things you know you should do has many positive results beyond the obvious desired outcome of achieving your goals. You will become more respected and admired. You will develop new friendships and build deeper relationships with people in both your personal life and professional life. You will feel better about yourself and the person you are becoming.

So, why don’t we do the little things that are easy to do?  The reason is because they are so-o-o-o easy not to do—to neglect, to procrastinate, to promise ourselves that we will do it tomorrow.

Another reason could be the fact that when the little things are looked at individually, we don’t value their importance. Napoleon Hill said, “A big success is made up from a great number of little circumstances each of which may seem so small and insignificant most people pass them by as not being worthy of notice.”

Fight the Cause

What’s the reason you aren’t consistent in doing the little things you know you should do?  Think about it.

When I was interviewed on Mixergy, a blog for aspiring entrepreneurs, I was asked what the No. 1 obstacle was that I had to overcome in order to achieve my goals.  My answer was laziness.  I know the little things I need to do and I understand their importance.  For me, I have to fight laziness and PUSH myself to do the little things I know I need to do.

Become a Disciplined Person

The fact that you are reading this blog post tells me that you want to achieve more in life. If you are going to be successful at achieving your goals, you must become a disciplined person.  You must become a person who will do the little things that are easy to do and easy not to do.

I also want to point out that I don’t believe there is any distinction between who you are in your personal life and who you are in your professional life. If your bedroom is a mess, then your car is probably a mess.  If you don’t have the discipline to clean your home and car, you will likely struggle having the discipline to do the little things required of you to achieve your goals. You can’t be one person at home and a different person at work.  You are who you are!

If you want to achieve more in your life, if you want to grow as a person and achieve your personal best, then you MUST become a person who does the little things that are both easy to do and easy not to do. This will likely be the greatest challenge you will ever take on, but if you will commit to this challenge and use your personal initiative do the things you know you should do with consistency, your life can be transformed.

One of the most important keys to success is having the discipline to do what you know you should do even when you don’t feel like doing it.

About the Author: Todd Smith is a successful entrepreneur of 30 years and founder of Little Things Matter. To receive Todd’s daily lessons, subscribe here. All Todd’s lessons are also available on iTunes as downloadable podcasts. (Todd’s podcasts are ranked #27 in America’s top 100 podcasts and #1 in the personal and development field.)

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  • Sahn
    Dear Todd,

    Responding to your "What Is Easy To Do"... Post. Ok. Are you up for a challenge? I go on record here that starting today, this moment, I, Sonia Francisco commit to remaking myself and doing those little things that matter that I would rather not do...I will continue to read and learn from your posts and other uplifting, spiritual literature I have available to me and put those lessons into action.

    Here is my question: How do I re-program my brain to be able to do this?

    I am not making excuses. Never-the-less, I have had some trauma in my life that makes this goal very challenging. I will literally have to re-wire the way I think and react and I am a little confused as to where to start.

    I was raised in a very abusive, chaotic, dysfunctional family. I already know that I am a strong person and that I have won many personal victories in my life that required facing and doing hard stuff. I had to rise from the ashes, so to speak and go from victim to survivor to thriver. It is a continuing process to reclaim the territory that has been stolen from me.

    I have survived Satanic ritual abuse and many other traumatic events which include divorce and death of a spouse. The afore-mentioned childhood abuse literally caused my psyche to split into different personalities, but after intense counseling and really hard emotional work, I have successfully integrated into a whole person. Reconnecting to my spirituality has been the key for me to heal and recover from my past. The church I attend is both a comfort and a guide in my life.

    The problem is, even after 10 years, I am still learning the basics of how to function as a normal, single human being. My brain has been wired for survival for so long that it is challenging to take it out of that mode. I tend to be both mildly dyslexic and have many of the same symptoms as someone with ADD. I am very distractable and find myself aimlessly going from one activity to the next without any real sense of time. Following through with commitments, remembering special occasions and being on time is extremely challenging for me.

    To survive, I learned NOT to look people in the eye, to forget things instantly, to be a chameleon, to hide who I really was. These skills saved my life then, but are quite the opposite of what I need to do and who I need to be in my life today.

    I understand that routines are helpful, but have never before been able to keep to one for any length of time. I instinctively rebel against anything too stifling or controlling, even if I know it will be good for me. My husband's favorite nickname for me is "Maverick".

    Would you be willing to share with me how you plan out your day, ie what routines you keep that prevent you from falling into the trap of procrastination and laziness? What is it that you do to motivate yourself to just go and do what needs to be done in the first place?

    My most immediate goal is to be successful as a marketing consultant in Ambit Energy. Yet, how can I do that when my home, my car, etc are a cluttered mess and I have so many self-defeating habits? I mean, where do I start first? I am open to doing first things first if I could only figure out what those things were!

    I am struggling to balance my responsibilities at home, church, and the business. I almost gave up on doing Ambit, but have recently chosen to try it once more as a vehicle to financial freedom and personal success. No one in my family has EVER been successful financially. That is one more shackle in the chain that binds my family of origin that I would love to break. One more false belief system I desire to prove to be wrong.

    Thank you so much for your time and feedback, Todd.

    May God Bless You,

    Sahn

  • Sandra Phillips
    Thanks Todd,

    I can never hear or read this enough times

    Sandra Phillips, Unicity Franchise Owner
  • HI Sandra- Thanks for your comment! I hope you are doing well.
  • Davidcookpottery
    Excellent ideas Todd. I so appreciate you sharing yourself like this. I am an educated man (with a doctorate degree) and still know that continued learning is critical to a continuing journey. I also appreciate the kind notes you have posted me on my marital situation. It has been and still is devastating and life crushing to me now. I AM holding on as best I can, and your articles help give me strength and direction again. They affirm again truths I already know, but somehow hearing someone else say them affirms that I DO KNOW what to do to do things right and good and healthy. Thanks so much. And I pray that GOD will continue to bless you in the days ahead. GOD has been sooooo faithful to me, and I to HIM over the last 50+ years. I AM walking with HIM daily and will make it through this time ... I only hope and pray that my wife will be holding on to my arm as I escort us back into our home together. I cannot give up hope, even though it seems awfully slim............... Dave Cook, Salisbury NC - David Cook on Facebook, also David Cook Pottery and Inner Healing Christian Ministries, Inc. (all on Facebook)
  • Hi David,

    Thanks for your comment. I am glad you are finding value from my Facebook and blog posts.

    I am so sorry to hear about your marriage. I can sense your pain through your comments.

    White keeping hope is a nice thing to do, from what I have read in your notes, it seems the best solution may be to accept what has happened and prepare yourself to live the balance of your life without her.

    I hope, trust and pray for God's favor in your life.

    Todd
  • Todd:

    It seems the better one is ... the more little things one is doing. I find that little things are so easy to forget, especially when life gets busy.

    What tools do you use to remember the little things?
  • Hi Glen,

    I wrote a post titled, How to Keep From Forgetting Things. I would encourage you to read that post. The main thing I do is keep a prioritized TO DO list.

    Thanks for stopping by to comment.

    Todd
  • DavidCookPottery
    I practice, on Friday mornings, a "one thing at a time" discipline. ONLY do ONE thing to its completetion. Not letting anything interrupt washing dishes, or vacuuming, no multi tasking allowed here. Helps me focus and have intentionality on that one thing for that one time in that one moment in time. Has really helped it many ways.
  • Todd this is so true. I get the little laziness bug from time to time. I do notice it less since your "Little Things Matter" tips. I can hear them roll around in my head when I putting off something I need to be doing. They help keep me focused on the consistency of doing what I need to do every day, especially when I don't feel like doing them. I am happy to say my bed is made every day and my car is spotless :) lol
  • Davidcookpottery
    Even "laziness" can be intentional ... for a season of rest and relaxation. Don't be too hard on yourself! "Be still, and know that I am GOD" (Psalm 46.10) requires intentional stillness. Sometimes physically. Can that be OK for you? Intention is the focus. Laziness is the giving up of all control to nothingness, at least to me.
  • Great post with practical insight. Love the way you admit to occasional laziness, it makes it easier to parallel with it.
  • donnabrewer
    Good morning Todd, thank you once again for a very needed lesson. You are so right on with this. If we as individuals cannot become disciplined, we will never acheive our goals or become our full potential. This is something that I personally need to work on. Fortunately, being an nanny is teaching me more than I ever thought I could learn from this expeirence. Because my situation with the child is more personal than the most, I go the extra mile with him, teaching him the value of what needs to be done in order for him to be successful in school and life. I'm even teaching him Spanish, and for him his laziness in this subject is as a challenge. I do my best to make it a fun and special game. I am using my child development skills and physicology from college to the max. So thank you again for this important life lesson. Donna Brewer
  • Davidcookpottery
    Way to go Donna! Sounds wonderful!
  • Dan S.
    Your post today reminded me of one of the primary themes of M. Scott Peck's The Road Less Travelled: Love is Discipline! It is only in constancy of thought and action (towards ourselves and others) that true love is demonstrated. To "feel the love" is not the same as making a conscious decision to act in a loving way - which as often as not has little to do with any associated feeling. I think it may be time for me to re-read the book!
  • Davidcookpottery
    Excellent book, Dan. And remember, he wrote this book before becoming a person of faith. I thought that incredible, because his book is so full of spiritual truths. He hits the nail on the head about love, and its commitment to reach out regardless. A re-read is in the works for me too, along with the companion "Further Along the Road Less Traveled." To that he says, ' In my first book I said life is difficult. To that I will only add "Life is complex." ' Good writings, good insights. Wish my wife would read and take to heart what the mans says still. Blessings....
  • sthetiks
    It's so simple. And as Picasso said: "simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." And I also used to say that simpli city is not that simple. In thought it takes deep thinking and in action it demands a rigorous discipline of ""do it now" appraoch.

    Very well written. Kudos. Thanks for sahring.

    Peace & Blessings :) - Amer
  • Hi Todd,
    as always a great take. Oftentimes people asked me "Why are you successful, what are you doing ?" Then they want to know the magic formula. My self, I have a hard time to answer that question because I really don't realise what I'm doing because they're so small and tiny. And laziness is certainly the key. On the other hand, there's also bad laziness, covered by busy-ness.
    Take care
    Oliver
  • Davidcookpottery
    Laziness covered by busy-ness. Never heard that. Interesting thought/concept, Thanks, Oliver. Will sit with this one a while. :- )
  • Great point. Laziness masked with busy running around is everywhere and we all do a bit of that to some extent.
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