Success Doesn’t Come As Advertised

Will you allow me to rant for one post?  Today, I opened an email and read this headline, “12 Easy Ways to MAKE MILLIONS for Your Business THIS YEAR (and spend next to nothing to do it!)”

The worst part is that this email was not a spam message.  It came from a company that has been in business 50 years. Of all the people and organizations who should know success does not come over night, they should know. The fact is they do know, but they have lowered their integrity to a level where the almighty buck is more important than their corporate integrity.

Recently, I read an interview between leadership expert and best selling author Mark Sanborn and Darren Hardy, publisher of Success Magazine. Mark asked Darren why he wrote his new book The Compound Effect. Here is what Darren said:

“I wrote it because I was ticked off. Our current society has grown up with a microwave mentality expecting success and the results on effort to be immediate. Coupled with mass commercial marketing and in its competitive zeal, companies have exaggerated their claims of overnight success appealing to our weakness of wanting immediate gratification. We are constantly bombarded with increasingly sensational claims to get rich, get fit, get younger, get sexier… all overnight with little effort for only three easy payments of $39.95.

“These repetitive marketing messages have distorted our sense of what it really takes to succeed. Then those with the sincere interest in learning what it takes to be more successful continually get bamboozled, distracted, frustrated and disappointed when they don’t experience the results they are after. I was tired of watching it happen!

“I wrote this book to return people to the basics—the truth and the core fundamentals of what it really takes to succeed. I wanted to clear the clutter, demystify the truth and tell it straight—with no fat or fluff included.”

Like Darren, I am disgusted with companies and people who have lowered their integrity to a level where they lie to consumers to make money. Of course, they have figured out a way to justify their deceptive marketing tactics, so they can sleep at night.  Perhaps the company I am referencing above could say, “Well sure, if Procter and Gamble implemented these lessons they could earn millions of dollars this year.”  The fact is that their marketing message was sent to all their subscribers and their message was not targeting GM, Exxon, or Citibank.

The part that makes me equally sick is that companies are using these marketing tactics because they work. People buy into the fact that they can lose 30 pounds in one week by swallowing this magic pill while sitting on their sofas watching TV eating candy bars, so they buy them.  Or as this headline represents you can make MILLIONS THIS YEAR with six months left, by buying their product.

I am here with Darren to stand on the rooftop and YELL as loud as I can that there are no quick fixes in life.  Success doesn’t come as advertised.

  • You are NOT going to buy an audio program, watch a webinar or read a book that is going to miraculously make you a millionaire in less than one year.
  • You are NOT going to start some Internet business with your current market value of $20 an hour and suddenly begin making $200 an hour, unless you are extremely lucky.
  • You are NOT going to lose 30 pounds in one month with ANY healthy weight-loss solution, unless you are very overweight.

Real success at anything takes time, discipline and persistence. Don’t get suckered into buying people’s marketing pitches when your common sense is telling you otherwise.

As a society we must get back to the truth about what it really takes to achieve our goals, but this won’t happen until we start being honest with ourselves about what it really takes to succeed.

Thanks for allowing me to rant.  Whew.  I feel better!

If something sounds too good to be true, there is a 99% chance it is.

About the Author: Todd Smith is a successful entrepreneur of 30 years and founder of Little Things Matter. To receive Todd’s daily lessons, subscribe here. All Todd’s lessons are also available on iTunes as downloadable podcasts. (Todd’s podcasts are ranked #27 in America’s top 100 podcasts and #1 in the personal and development field.)

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  • This microwave or instant mentality is what ails the people of USA right now. We want big problems to be solved overnight. And we are complaining everyday. We are losing the right direction because we already lost the vision necessary for a great nation.
  • Fazlee
    This is so true!

    I was in fact been bombarded by few friends of mine to join one network marketing company in my country. They told me that it's easy to do, no need to sell product, just bring friends for a drink with them and I can make big bucks up to $10000 in a month without much effort. I was like 'WOW'! (being naive).

    To make story short, I then joined the company after attending their group meetings and gathering. After a few months I realized things was not as easy as they first told me. They didn't tell me their secret marketing plan aka 'speed plan' to gain more money where you have to 'buy' a higher status with 5 digits amount of money! and how you should lie and make sensational stories to your prospects.

    I left the company 2 months ago because I could not take it anymore. They only interested in my money and other people's money. Recently their licensed have been revoked by the government and they changed their group and company's name and applied new license.

    However I must say that I did learned new things from this 'scam MLM' company like:

    - leadership
    - people's skills
    - financial planning
    - being positive
    - persistence, etc..

    II now understand that it takes hard work to be a successful person, not a simple 'do this in one year and you'll become a millionaire' LOL

  • Hi Fazlee,

    Thanks for your comment.

    Sorry to hear that you had a bad experience with a scam disguised as an MLM company.

    It sounds like you learned some great lessons.

    Thanks for sharing.

    Todd
  • Here is a great comment left my Lanette Pottle on the Little Things Matter Facebook page.

    "Anyone who wants to sell you overnight success or wealth is not interested in your success; they are interested in your money."
    -- Bo Bennett
  • Funny...last night as I was reading Harv Eker's book his challenge was not to engage in listening to people complain....Sorry Harv I had to listen to Todd...because Little Things Matter
  • Hi Daniel- You are too funny! Thanks!
  • Thanks, Todd. I hope that your post serves as a wake up call for many. It's hard to believe that companies with long track records of success are becoming so short sighted but it appears to be so. The quarterly results mentality driven by the need to keep Wall Street happy is another contributing factor for public companies.
  • HI Christian- Thanks for your contribution!
  • Danka
    FANTASTIC TODD, I LOVE YOU for YOUR "SPEACH TODAY"!!! As a Yoga Teacher I am reminding people to go back to the basics each day to build strong fundation. Some students expect a miracle in the firts few lessons, but as I am learning every day for many years, Yoga is a life long journey. Disciplin, Persistence as well as Attitude, Alignment and Action will bring you lots of Joy and Fun in Yoga practice on the mat and in your Life "off the mat". I AM ENJOYING your clear and honest words very much. You are a great!!!
  • Danka thanks for your kind words! I bet you are a great Yoga instructor. People need to build their futures on solid foundations.
  • Absolutely correct. There are plenty who will take the last buck out of someone just
    selling hope and a fantasy.
  • Hi Ernesto- I appreciate your comment and for always looking out for me. Thanks for pointing out my typo yesterday.
  • Jeanne Prichard
    I am so glad you published a blog on this subject Todd. I can't believe that marketing and sales 'messaging' for so many businesses have been reduced to this kind of hype. And it is no longer coming just from Internet marketing individuals but from small and large businesses everywhere. You were spot on about the general public's response. We read these 15 page email marketing letters, consisting of hype, empty promises, questionable references, AND psychology - we relate to the copy somehow, we get excited, we envision what life would be like if we had that product and then we BUY. Yes, it works. Otherwise it would disappear. I think its just another metric of how unhappy people are and how our answer for unhappiness always seems to point toward money instead of things with true value ie love, family and friendships.
  • Hi Jeanne- You hit the nail on the head. You expect hype from slimy marketers, but not from large established companies. I hate it that people buy into this nonsense and believe it to be true! It can't last forever!
  • Jenny Hau
    I see this everyday in practice. People want the easy fix. Drop your body off and we will fix years upon years of poor lifestyle habits in one visit.

    I love the people we work with but they have been marketed tirelessly and at some point they want to believe it and they end up waiting for the exercise pill and never put on their shoes to go running.

    Anything worthwhile (success, health etc.) takes time. Thanks for the reminder:)
  • Thanks Jenny! I bet you see this all the time in your business! I am proud of you!
  • Lbauer
    Here Here! Thanks for articulating what we as parents are experiencing. For example recent college graduates. Many expect to get out of college and have the lifestyle that their parents have worked their entire lives for. Perspectives have been skewed and as results take longer than expected, many become discouraged. Sad situation to this promising generation.
  • You are right. I had never thought about this topic effecting our children, but it is. It impacts all of us. Thanks!
  • Dave
    I really appreciated this article. I agree with what you say, that there are no quick fixes. If there were, we would all already be doing them! If one webinar really made you a millionaire, wouldn't that be the most viewed video on Youtube?

    To quote my father-in-law's favorite poem:


    When you want a thing bad enough to go out and fight for it,
    To work day and night for it,
    To give up your peace and your sleep and your time for it;
    If only the desire of it makes your aim strong enough never to tire of it;
    If life seems all empty and useless without it,
    And all that you dream and you scheme is about it;
    If gladly you'll sweat for it, fret for it, plan for it,
    Pray with all your strength for it;
    If you'll simply go after the thing that you want with all your capacity,
    Strength and sagacity; faith, hope, and confidence, stern pertinacity;
    If neither poverty nor cold nor famish nor gaunt
    Nor sickness or pain to body or brain can turn you away
    From the aim that you want;
    If dogged and grim, you besiege and beset it, you'll get it!

    Author Unknown

    I wouldn't expect anything useful to come any other way.

    Thanks for the post!
  • Hi Dave- Thanks for sharing your poem. Great success really does come down to paying the price that others are unwilling to pay. Very few will pay the price required to succeed, which is why very few achieve their goals. Thanks for your contribution.
  • donnabrewer
    Good morning Todd, yes this is a good lesson fo all of us. The T.V. is full of these very false kind of advertisments. I like your analogy: "if it's to good to be true , it probably is". The things in life that are really worth our while take time and effort on our part. It's like a fine wine, it receives it's fine bouquet with age. I'm glad that your feeling better for having vented your views, and that you wrote today's lesson. Thank you, Donna Brewer
  • Hi Donna- Thanks for your daily support. You can be assured to get a personally autographed copy of my book.
  • Kika_van_unen
    After reading this story, I opened an other mail with every days quotes. It says:

    Ik heb ontdekt dat je bijna alles kunt bereiken en bijna overal kunt komen zolang je maar geen haast hebt.
    Paul Theroux

    If I translate it well it says:

    I've discovered that you can reach almost everything and can come almost everywhere, as long as you're not in a hurry. Paul Theroux.

    A confirmation of what you wrote above. Nice coincidence.

    Greetings, Isabel (the Netherlands)

  • Hi Isabel- Thanks for your comment. I appreciate you support from the Netherlands! :-)
  • Darleneisunicitynow
    Thank you Todd for the Truth.....I see these promises all the time and I think about all the people in their desperation who dive into this stuff thinking they hit the jackpot and I know how hurt and cynical they will become...it destroys it for all the 'Real' people with 'Real' opportunity with the support and coaching that is required to move from where they are now to success...Thank you Thank you...
  • Hi Darlene- You are right. These false promises influences people's expectations. I look forward to seeing you in September!
  • Fully agreed. Sustainable and balanced success is a result of consistently and patiently pursuing one's aspirations and goals while making revisions and improvements on the way.


    "In the long run, we are all dead" (Keynes) This is Keynesian approach and his views are mainly implemented particularly in banking sector.
  • HI Amer- I read your comment to my family. Your opening comment sounds like a great quote! "Sustainable and balanced success is a result of consistently and patiently pursuing one's aspirations and goals while making revisions and improvements on the way."

    Thanks for sharing!

    Todd
  • Bill
    Todd, as always great advice. Our culture of speed at any cost contributes to our problems with integrity.Our " Instant gratification" comes from not having our priorities in the correct order. This comes from not having our purpose well defined. When we know our purpose we develop the good habits of self discipline, common sense becomes common, we live a life with integrity and balance. It all starts with having a good plan and working everyday to put and keep our first things in their proper order.
  • Hi Bill- Great points! Thanks for sharing!
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