I attended a youth trip held by my church at Troy University a long time ago. There were several dances (all of which I attended), but prior to one I sat next to an old man and struck up a conversation with him. (I'm as yet, still a teenager. I don't know if you would view the situation as odd, but I don't view it as common.) I personally hold great respect for the elders for their experience and wisdom, and I try to learn something from them if I can. Anyway, later that day, at the dance, he introduced me spontaneously to his favorite girl (who was about my age), saying I was his favorite too. A friendship was kindled between us, and we remain friends still.

I'll mention that I intentionally tried to be kind during my conversation with him, and though I didn't realize the impression I was making, kindness had its reward.

Very good lesson. You've hit the bullseye on this subject for me. Thank you, Todd.

great lesson. I recently read some posts about the necessity of burning bridges – and I didn't feel well with that idea. That's why I'm glad to read the opposite in a post from your desk. In Germany we have the saying:”You meet every person twice in your life.” While this might be a little bit too intense, there's a certain truth too it. Especially if you abuse your power in a certain role, it might be pretty awkward if you meet the same person in reverse roles later in life.

Thanks for sharing your valuable insights.

Take care

Oliver