The Importance of Being On Time

Have you noticed that tardiness is on the rise? People are chronically late for work; for their child’s teacher conference or athletic contest; or even for parties and celebrations. As the old saying goes, “they will even be late for their own funeral.”  Yet, punctuality is one of the key ways that we can positively brand ourselves.

Today we will explore why it is so important to be on time for all of your scheduled events. Whatever your appointment may be—a phone call, a business meeting, or a dinner engagement—you should always strive to be on time.

Why Be on Time?

Being on time:

  • Demonstrates that you are diligent and dependable.
  • Indicates that you honor your commitments and you can be trusted.
  • Shows that you have respect for other people and that you care as much about their time as your own.
  • Sets a good example for your children and others who look up to you.
  • Builds self-confidence and success.

One of the common attributes of all successful people is that they view their time as a precious resource. When you are late for appointments with people who value their time, you will have wasted one of their most valuable assets and there is a good chance they will view you as rude, irresponsible and disrespectful. Is this how you want to brand yourself?

Not only should you make every effort to be on time for business-related appointments, but you should also do your utmost to be on time for personal commitments. Valuing your friend’s time and earning their respect is an important part of your individual reputation.

Let’s now look at two specific business scenarios where punctuality is critical.

Keeping Appointments

Not only should you strive to be on time for an appointment, but also I recommend that you set a goal to arrive at least five minutes early.

Four Reasons You Should Arrive Early:

1.  To give yourself a buffer in case something delays you. Planning to show up at the exact time of your appointment leaves no room for error.

2.  To be relaxed for the appointment. Running through the door stressed out because you were rushing, never reflects well on you.

3.  To make sure you are prepared for the appointment. Always arrive early so you will have a few minutes to relax, think about your agenda, and get organized.
If I am meeting with some prospective clients at a restaurant, I select a table out of the way. Being early gives me the opportunity to determine the best location for the meeting and ensure that the clients are not distracted.

4.  To avoid making up an excuse for being late.  I don’t know about you, but I hate listening to excuses and even worse, I hate making excuses.

When I was a realtor, I would arrive for my appointments five minutes early to gather my presentation materials and review any notes I had taken. Then at the exact time of the appointment I would ring the bell. This was an easy way to make a great first impression.

Making Scheduled Phone Calls

When you schedule phone calls, always be clear about who’s responsible for initiating the call. When you don’t know who is initiating the call, then accept the responsibility and make the call at the scheduled time.  This puts you in control.

If you are the person responsible for initiating the call, what kind of impression will you make?  Will it be positive, neutral or negative?  If you want to really gain the edge in life, take advantage of all opportunities to make a positive impression on others.

  • Negative Impression—If you call more than five minutes early or more than five minutes late, you run the risk of making a negative impression.
  • Neutral Impression—If you call one or two minutes early or one or two minutes late you will likely not make any impression because it’s what most people do.
  • Positive Impression—When you call at the exact time of your call, you have the opportunity to make a positive impression.  I have had hundreds of people tell to me, “Wow, you are right on time!”  That comment tells me that I made an impact!

When you have a call scheduled, write it in your appointment book and if necessary set your cell phone alarm to notify you two minutes in advance.  Then at the exact time, press “send.”

When Your Best Plan Fails

Circumstances do arise and it won’t always be possible to be on time. If you are going to be late for an appointment, call as soon as you know you are going to be late. This allows others to plan their schedules accordingly. Cell phones, PDA’s and other technology make this an easy thing to do.

When you are on time you enhance your brand. When you are late, you devalue your brand.  Being on time is a choice.

Let me encourage you to take pride in being a person who is always on time and prepared for your appointments. Remember, there is no downside in showing up early, but there is significant downside to showing up late.

Is being on time a challenge for you? I encourage you to share your experiences in the comment section below.

You can be respected, as someone who is always on time, if being on time is important to you.

About the Author: Todd Smith is a successful entrepreneur of 30 years and founder of Little Things Matter. To receive Todd’s daily lessons, subscribe here. All Todd’s lessons are also available on iTunes as downloadable podcasts. (Todd’s podcasts are ranked #27 in America’s top 100 podcasts and #1 in the personal and development field.)

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  • Josh

    This is an amazing post, and you have definitely changed my view on being on time. I now know that it is a choice and that I have to choose to be on time to gain a positive impression.

    This has helped me so much to manage my time correctly and to plan ahead.

    Thanks for this.

  • Hi Josh,

    Thanks for your raving review of my post. Being on time has many positive benefits beyond those highlighted in this post.

    Thanks for your note.

    Todd

  • Sahn

    I have to admit, this is my greatest weakness. I have improved, but all too often am running late for appts., church, or family get-togethers. It is easy to blame it on my husband or small children, but I know that if I do what I need to do when I need to do it, I can help them to leave on time as well. This was a good reminder that I need to focus more on this one and keep working at improvement.

  • Hi Sahn-Awareness is where all positive changes begins. I admire that you have accepted responsibility for being late and that you are committed to making the necessary changes in your life to start being on time. Congratulations! Todd

  • I know that it always takes me longer to get myself together and get somewhere than I think it will. I've learned that if I plan to get ready and leave early, I generally get there on time. (This is especially true if you car pool and others aren't always ready when you pick them up). It also provides a time cushion in case of traffic delays, road construction, etc. When you do arrive "too early," it's a good chance to do some observation. What kind of furnishings and art work are displayed? Are there certificates, travel pictures or newspaper clippings on the wall? How do the front office employees behave to each other, or on phone calls? You can learn a lot about the company or person through silent observation, and have resource material for conversation.

  • Thanks Janelle for your additional insights. Todd

  • Www4gsus

    Dear Todd,
    as someone who has their whole life struggled with being on time I want you to know this article has tremedously helped me. Just to be completely honest, I don't like being early and I've learned that it is because (sub-conciously) I want people's attention (be it negative or positive - the former coming from showing up late) and because I hate waiting... for whatever it is to start. Anyway, thanks for the encouragement. I guess I know deep down it's important to be early but this has helped me see why. It's like knowing you need to quit smoking, but until you add up all the negative reasons (it makes you stink, causes cancer, costs $, offends others, raises insurance rates, etc) you continue to justify it to yourself.

  • I am glad this post had an impact on your thinking. Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your thoughts. I wish you the best! Todd

  • Todd, you just earned yourself a new fan and a loyal reader... awesome stuff.. thanks for the effort.. :)

  • Thanks! Sandeep Bali!

  • ted

    Todd...

    These posts are inspiring. I have shared them with several people. I find these thoughts linger in my mind as I go through the day. In fact I am unconsciously implementing these principles into my life and I notice I have a better overall attitude as a result, I listen to 3 or 4 podcasts a day ! Awesome !

  • Hi Ted,

    Thanks so much for your comment. I am glad my lessons are making a difference in your life. Please keep me informed with your progress from time to time.

    Todd

  • Todd, Your posts are awesome. I am a marriage and family therapist. I used to ALWAYS be on time. Then, I had two kids, went back to school while working, and went through a significant emotional trauma all in a five-year-period of time. Punctuality became a struggle for me as day-to-day living became about surviving instead of thriving. However, my tardiness turned into a habit that has increased my anxiety and often hurt my reputation as a caring and responsible therapist. I appreciate your wise words on many of your topics, but especially the reminders of the perceptions of others. Although there are many legitimate reasons that these misunderstood behaviors occur, gentle reminders of their importance is needed.
    Marian

  • Hi Marian- Thanks for sharing your story. I hope things are going better now. Life does through some muddy seasons to test us. I hope to see you commenting again in the future.

  • savvyonlineshopper

    Todd, I've enjoyed all of your posts so far! Thank you and keep them coming!

    Leticia

  • Leticia- thanks for taking your time to comment on my blog post! I am glad you are enjoying my lessons.

  • savvyonlineshopper

    Love you posts Todd! Please, keep them coming!

  • GeordieJohn

    Todd,
    Personally i strive to be on time always; it's a pet peeve of mine when the other participants arrive late, or not at all and with no warning or explanation until well after the meeting is done and over. Usually there isn't even a good excuse other than 'i was held up', or ''so and so stopped me on the way here and i just couldn't get away...'.

    This is a nice and succinct post, which i am finding to be a trend in your other posts as well, i'm very much enjoying working through your site today!

    Thanks for sharing!

  • Geordie, Thanks for your contribution! I think you will find all of my posts very bottom line. In fact, some of them may be a little direct. I hope you enjoy my blog!

  • roxannaebanks

    Todd, fantastic.

  • Hi Roxanna, Thanks for taking the time to share your comments.

  • roxannaebanks

    Todd you are welcome. Roxanna

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